In Memory of Baby {B}
January 13, 2012-June 11, 2012
A couple of weeks ago I received a call from a stranger who
introduced herself as an older sister to a new mommy of a terminally ill baby
boy who was just 4 months old. On behalf
of her sister she was desperately seeking someone to take professional photos
of him before he passed away. For a
couple of weeks she had been frantically trying to contact photographers who
have volunteered their services for just this purpose with no luck. She told me she had contacted 10 photographers
and not one had called her back.
We normally photograph happy occasions and milestones so
this blindsided us. Additionally we were
swamped with other jobs and timelines and not sure how we could commit to this
endeavor since the window of time was potentially very small. But a little voice in my head told me this
challenge was placed in our path for a reason and God would help us find a way. And He did.
We knew going into this that it may be a difficult session
but we were prepared to provide a service that was very important to them. What
we didn’t think about was how it would change us. They opened their hearts and shared the story
of their beautiful baby with us, and we instantly felt a connection with this
adorable family of five. Often we as
humans find ourselves asking how or why things like this happen but I sensed
after spending time with them that their baby touched the lives of not only
those that loved him, but those they had never even met until this time in
their lives. Photographing this family
in the face of a tragedy allowed us to witness first hand how God has given
them strength, courage, grace, humility and love to deal with His plan for Baby
{B}.
We have been in contact with them since then getting some
things ready for the time when they will want to share his beautiful images
with their loved ones at his funeral services.
We were just a sprinkle in his timeline on earth, but he and his family have
left their footprints on our hearts forever.
Yesterday we received the call that Baby {B} had passed from
this life and is now resting in peace in the arms of God. With heavy hearts we
are thinking of his beautiful family in their time of sorrow and wish to extend
our deepest sympathy to them.
Go in Peace,
Tina
"Have courage for the great sorrows of life, and patience for the small ones. And when you have laboriously accomplished your daily tasks, go to sleep in Peace. God is awake." ~Victor Hugo